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Example:
A coach who would make decisions could have the best intentions of the world, still it would be necessary that these is perfectly including and accepted by his player. You will suppose, probably, that the player does not comply if he does not understand, or does not accept, what wants the coach! This is a communications problem. The coach must be able of making understood himself
The same goes for as regards your internal communication: you must understand each other yourself. Between what wants aware mind (the coach) and what consists of the unconscious (the player), there is the world of impassable incomprehension sometimes. A player who says: « especially does not make double error » can think perfectly clear with itself: nothing is less true!
In reality, the unconscious does not use the same language as its aware colleague and it is fond of their peculiarity: where the aware reasons with the unconscious content itself with seeing and with smelling
It works with the sensory system and particularly picture. To be able to communicate with him, it is necessary to speak to him in picture.
The imagination in its broadest sense (the five senses) is the most powerful tool of the unconscious and it implicates the following thing:
The unconscious does not consist of denial.
If the aware is able of conceptualizing a denial, it will be impossible for the unconscious to imagine her in picture. It is even going to make the opposite. What will have the effect the inverse effect of what you like to acquire. If I say to you: « Do not put your bullet out of the court », what's happening?
Consciously you understand what means this sentence: the bullet must stay within the limits of the ground. But the unconscious does not hear it of this ear. As it does not work with words but with pictures and that it is impossible to him to imagine action not to put the bullet wherever belongs, it is going to try to make a picture with sentence. The picture which is going to form in the head that of the bullet going out of the court is. In other words, exactly the opposite of what you like to acquire!
The unconscious cannot understand a sentence including a denial because it is impossible to him to imagine not to make anything. So much speak to him Chinese! In sensory domain denial does not exist. The unconscious works as the dog to whom they learnt "sat" word. Each time he hears word "sat" word: It sits down.
If you say to the dog: "not sat"! It is going to sit down. It does not understand denial. It understands "sat". So that it gets up, teach him word "standing ".
It is in that way that the unconscious works. When you try not to send the bullet out of the court, the unconscious, to understand, does not have other choice than to imagine it out of the court. He does not know how to make in another way.
Be simpler, have as objective to acquire something. You want to achieve a service: imagine there or the bullet must go, and not where please not it to go
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